I am not interested in stirring up any controversy;
I am just belching my opinion and I don’t expect you to wholly agree to
everything I say in this piece.
About
70-85% of students on every university campus in Ghana are in relationships,
which they often refer to as “going out.” I don’t know where they “go”
though, and that is not part of my “okro” business.
If you are a lady reading this piece, I
want to make you aware that by age 23, you must have at least four (4) guys to
propose to you and if this doesn’t happen, then there must be something wrong
which could be character deficit, vertical challenge, or anything attributed to
spirituality.
Another subjective fact is that if by age 18, you have accepted
more than 5 proposals and have had sexual affairs with them, you also have to
look for any church or mosque with its name being preceded with
redemption. The truth is that it is abnormal to accept the proposal of
every guy because there are a number of guys out there whose hobby is proposing
to ladies.
There are so many relationships which start on campus and end up
in marriages; however, there are also millions of them which are like a
“trotro” bus from BU Campus to Pipe Ano. The bus becomes virtually empty by the
time it reaches Pipe Ano. Very pitiful!
I can confidently say that the number of break- ups that occur
on every university campus exceed the number of questions students answer
correctly in examination.
If you are a lady reading this piece and you are in a
relationship, I want to tell you that “He Is Not Your Boyfriend” and that is
because boyfriends don’t have the mind set of marrying you. Boyfriends are
often times interested in sex, parties and anything that will satisfy their
desire. They will eventually “drop” you as soon as their desires are met. He
should rather be described as your future husband; future husbands will groom
you.
They do everything to attain the ultimate goal which is
marriage. You two merge ideas; you stay away from sex. Boyfriends are not
serious guys and their most desired goal is to nail you to the cross; by this I
mean to have sex with you. Future husbands are those who plan
their lives with
you, make you a virtuous woman and help you attain your personal goals.
So I ask you a simple question,” if you are dating him without
the mindset of getting married to him in future, what then are you doing Or you
are acting a movie?” I am not against relationship but my argument is that, at
this age your aim for being in a relationship should be marriage and not
pleasure.
My advice to ladies out there is that, never kill yourself for a
guy; if you do, he will come to your funeral with a different girl and when “One-Corner”
or “Wo” is being played, he will be the first to dance. Be wise and strong if
possible, strong as a Vienna City Club prostitute’s bed. The only thing you
should die for is your dreams and convictions.
And to the few singles out there, never
rush okay. Relationship is never a race or competition, it is a God agenda and
at his own time, you will be glorified. Don’t envy anyone, just keep focused
and pursue your dreams.
Dignity without a degree is far better than a degree without
dignity. Watch your steps well because he is not your boyfriend. Boyfriends are
for JHS and SHS students, at your stage he should be regarded as a future
husband. Asempa y3 tia.
“We are not children of a lesser god.”
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