Are you that guy that seem to be stuck in
the “friendzone” with a girl you really like? It can be very hurtful if this is
the case, as nothing hurts more than watching the one you love with someone
else.
Most
times, guys who are stuck in this kind of situation would rather stay friends
with the girl as they find it difficult to be without her. But all hope is not
lost, just because a girl sees you as just a friend does not mean there are no
ways to get her to want more from you.
We can help you here, as we give you 8
practicable tips to get the woman of your dreams to see you as the man of hers.
1. Be There For Her: It
is easy to get offended when someone you like seem not to be interested in you
that way, especially if she is also dating someone else. Do not give in to the
urge to be bitter or mean. Be there for her. Show her you are a true friend,
listen to her and let her know you care about her unconditionally. This way,
she would see you as not just a friend, but also a confidante. This is one step
towards her being unable to imagine life without you.
2. Let Her Realize What She
Is Missing: Whether we like it or not, human beings are shallow by
nature. Work on yourself to make you irresistible to her. Pay attention to what
you wear, your perfume, how you look, etc. Your affection for her can make her
heart flutter when you walk into a room and gradually she starts to admit to
herself that you are quite goodlooking.
3. Hang Out With Her: One
thing you have going for you that other guys don’t is that you are friends. So,
coming up with opportunities for you both to hang-out should not be too
difficult. You could ‘flex’ with a group of other friends or one-on-one.
The point is that, you should be the most important person in her social life.
If you are going to hang out with her one-on-one though, avoid extremely
romantic settings since this could make her suspicious that you are trying to
manipulate her.
4. Share: Be
it stories, secrets or memories, sharing with someone creates a bond like no
other. This is usually why you would see best friends who have maintained their
friendship for decades. Try as much as possible to let her into your life and
also encourage her to open up more about herself. Once you can get her to talk
to you like she talks to no other, then you have all you need.
5. Make Her Think About You: There
are many ways to make sure you are on someone’s mind. You could send her fun
text messages from time to time, get her little gifts or surprise her when you
can. The point is that she should find it difficult to go a whole day without
you popping into her mind from time to time.
6. Make Her Miss You: After
you have succeeded in doing all the above, the next step is to give her some
time off from you. Before doing this though, be sure that you have made the
right impressions on her. Take some days or week off from being with her. Let
her be the one to wonder what is going on. When you notice she starts to
contact you often and expresses that she is missing your company, then you know
you are close.
7. Express Your Feelings: When
you are sure that she is starting to feel you, even just a little bit, this is
when you go all-in and lay it all out there. Let her know that you have
feelings for her and would like to begin a relationship. Avoid being too
intense when you say this (like declaring undying love or proposing marriage).
Give her time to get used to the idea but let her also know it is also okay if
she is not comfortable with this. If you do things this way, she would not feel
so pressured that she puts up a ‘wall’.
8. Be Patient: These
steps above are not ones to rush through. Getting someone who previously does
not see you as boyfriend material to consider a relationship with you could
take time. Do not despair if things are not moving on as fast as you would
like. Remember, it would be so much worth it when you finally have her in your
arms.
Essentially to note, many individuals have been in close amicable
friendship with the opposite sex, however they have not had the courage to
express what they feel to the partner.
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